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20, losing job with a baby on the way! help?

hi, im a 20 year old without any qualifications, losing my current job at tip top factory and have a baby due in january. any ideas what kind of work i can get with decent pay, as my girlfriend wants a bit of time off work after the baby. would prefer not to go to mines or move away as all of our family are close by and very important to us.
well girlfriend wanted originally a year and i was happy with that now she is saying 6 months. i am happy for a year but she says we will wait and see
well girlfriend wanted originally a year and i was happy with that now she is saying 6 months. i am happy for a year but she says we will wait and see
freeloading off her is far from it! If i had my way id be the only worker and she would be able to stay at home but unfortunately it cant work that way at the moment

Don't feed into the mentality that "there's nothing out there." I see people say that all the time, and for those people, there isn't anything out there.

What the frick frack is this "bit of time off work after the baby" for your girlfriend? What kind of man are you? I was about to admire you for sticking it out with her and being there for the baby, now it looks like you're freeloading off her.

Be a man. Get job and let her take as much time as she thinks is necessary to take care of your child.

Get married.

>>> I get the impression you love your girlfriend and you already love the baby. Get married.

Here's advice from an old fart who has made all the mistakes. When she says she's thinking about taking a year off, then maybe six months...

Her attitude on working is going to change in a heartbeat when she's confident that you have the family support issue under control. I know it's easier said than done, don't get me started. You're going to be strapped for money when you have a young family just like 98% of young families are. It's not about whether you find a "good enough" job. You need to take the role of being the primary breadwinner.

I'm not trying to insult women, I love women. But if you think they always mean exactly what they say, you're in for a life of confusion, frustration, and you'll be saying "What the hell just happened" for the rest of your life.

Even if it's not a lot of money, you need to become the financial stability. Then she can work to supplement things if that works for your child and family.

I'm not trying to be a jerk. I'm trying to give you the best advice I can. You seem like a stand up guy. Now's the time to put the package to the wall and make it happen.

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